If cry..

If cry could ease our pain..
then we would not feel pain..
so no matter you cry or you don't..
pain is pain...
to ease it.. it depends on the cause of the pain..
certain pain can be eased by crying..
certain pain cannot be easily eased by crying..

it just hurt so bad till nothing could ease it..
you would wonder why..
but that is the fact..once you are hurt so badly..
the time you need to recover would be longer then you expect it would be.
it is just simply because the wound is so bad and opened widely till it needs time to heal...

its not about giving chance or not..
its not about gonna change or not..
its not about trying or not trying..
its neither about believing or not believing..
it is the matter of how one another feel about each other and do each of you really compatible as what both of you thought it was?

one.. if it is as what you thought it was.. which is compatible with each other..
things such as break ups and so on would not have happened..
arguments you would have.. but break ups. would happen normally when there is an extreme point where both partners have conflict with each other causing a situation where you would wanna name it as - the break up process.

two.. if you really think that you are not compatible wit him or her..
why continue? well.. in my opinion..
in the beginning, yes.. you do feel like he / she is the ONE..
the ONE you need.. no more others.. only he / she is enough to fulfill what i need for the rest of your life.. but time after time..
you get to know him / her more..
the way he / she would react to your behaviour and so on..
its either you accept it.. or don't accept it where you'll e not satisfied with it and so on.
den arguments would arise if the topic goes on and on..
then conflict and blah blah blah..
IF you already know that there may not be a future for both of you any longer.. why wanna continue? you would make yourself suffer even more..
or maybe him / her to suffer together with you.
what for? is it worth it? think about it thoroughly..

IF you LOVE someone..
you would pray and hope he / she will find another person..
whom she may be more compatible den being with you... more happier or even blessed..
you cannot want all for yourself..
you cannot be selfish.. no no no..