I cant believe it eh!

How come life is just so pathetic at times???
If you love your boyfriend / girlfriend,
Would you even wanna make worried about you??
Fuss about problems you made up out there..

What is the important thing in a relationship??
Its trust and there should not be any barriers between both sides..
Why wanna keep secrets between each other?
Since you are both together..
Then you should already open up the gate to share problems with one another..

Fine..
TO guys.. you may wanna keep your damn dignity for not disclosing your 'BAD' stuff..
Assume that it is something you doing behind the girl even though it is not when you don't wanna tell what's actually happening.. As girls think alot compare to girls.. Imaginative you know??

TO girls.. You may be afraid that he won't understand you or what so ever.. Or maybe embarass yourself.. as you are hiding from them about a insignificant matter which they might even laugh at you for being silly to keep that from them when they found out in the end..

But have you ever thought of..
Keeping a secret from the other may hurt the person even more when they found out themselve if it is a significant problem??
You got together with the girl or guy is because you love them don't you??
Wouldn't wan to make them wonder around what is actually happening and maybe it would turn up worst than you ever thought it would be..

This is a real case story ok.. and I am so really pissed with the GUY

This boyfriend is like owing huge lump sum of money out there..
Then this girlfriend would of course worry about her boyfriend isn't it.?
So she would try her very best to help him...
Even though she may even use up all her savings all these years and having the concern that she wouldn't be able to recover the money in short term..
But this GUY should be or even have felt his girlfriend's love and care for him to even change into a new leaf!!!!

What happen in the end is, the sum is getting to a really huge sum of money..
And this faithful girlfriend of his would be looking around and trying to collect as much money as she could to help her boyfriend in settling the debts..
Having to stay in fear.. Well.. sort of fear that her parents would notice about the cash movements in her accounts where from a RM xxxx to RM0!!

Oh what the heck.. The worst of all is this GUY have not learnt his lessons..
Loan due dates one after another..
Interest on loan increasing every day..
Don't even think that his wages barely could even finance the daily interest!!!
And this GIRL even had to lie to the GUY that its borrowed from her friends..
If you know that you have to repay loan amount..
Then start working or find ways to generate income!!
Obviously those legal wan la..
Only want to start looking for money when the due date is just around the corner??
Complaining to your boyfriend / girlfriend about your financial problem..
Then you would get your money??

What you think?
Money drop down from the sky??
Both of you were only youngsters.. Students..
Where the heck you wan your boyfriend / girlfriend to dig up money for you to pay your loan??
If your the other half is a rich guy or girl then I have nothing to say..
But what if he / she is just from a moderate family??

Think a moment ..
Would you even wanna trouble your boyofriend / girlfriend when you are in trouble??
As in TROUBLE..
You can't treat them as if they are atm machines or what ever you could think of treating..
They are also humans alright?? They have feelings too!!
Never go to far with your actions..
Never ever.. This will definitely ruin your relationship..

Really hope that GUY change after he settle his problem..
Change as in a new leaf..
Not causing troubles out there..
And to love and appreciate the GIRL more..