PLEASE! ><

Chasing after another person, be it a girl or a guy,
please! remember this! you dont try, you will never know the outcome!
fear of everything, and not doing anything,
will bring you nowhere,
but YOU yourself here being miserable, making your crappy assumptions,
where at that moment, you could have just missed your chance of getting him/her,
who knows? you might think he/she's unreachable, but, if you put that extra little effort,
he/she might be yours?

shall not fear of being rejected,
as you could take this as a lesson to learn, and better up yourself,
but, you shall not take this and being repeated going after that girl,
doing things that he/she would never appreciate.

fear is just a state of MIND! as quoted from the show Love Happens.! 

might have in mind that he/she COULD be mine ONE day ,
if I continue like this for sometime,
he/she could be mine.

its not wrong to think that way,
they might get touched by your actions and eventually accepted you,
but also please OPEN up your eyes a little bit wider,
how does they react to your actions,
how they feel around you, and so on,
it does matter whether is there a HIGH/LOW possibility of getting that ONE chance.


if you've got that ONE chance,
and you flunked it, screwed it up sometime later,
and its your fucking fault,
please stop emo ing around,
its either you go and get them back AT THIS VERY INSTANCE! or just f off.
by seeing you emo ing around, as a friend, we dont know how to help you my friend,
unless you TELL us exactly whats going through your mind,
and not those emo phrases around, time to time, updating your FB status, or MSN status, etc


its always easier to find someone close to you to talk to,
and tell them whats with you and things,
ALSO choose the right person alright? ><
some is just not worth to ask for, especially those might have the same problem with you,
would definitely not be able to give you opinions or advises that would calm you down,
instead it might make you think even more or you just feel like suicidal. ><

if you were to seek one for advise,
and those advise were not something you were expecting to hear,
dont just get pissed up!
its just an advise based on their opinion, my friend,
trust me, you may ask from many people,
but at least there would be a few that would be of similiarity!

how advises are usually given are based on own experience,
or from stories where one hears them from,
and it could sound similiar to your case,
but bear in mind,
the person you're dealing with are different, therefore outcome would be of difference.
do watch ' He's just not that into you '
that would clarify some . especially the beginning part of the movie. ><

and another thing is,
if you dont expect to listen to advises,
then DONT ask!
what's the point of asking and in the end, you're not going to acknowledge some facts that are true?
and keep denying it from the beginning till the end,
and going one BIG round, coming back to square one?
1. waste of time
2  waste of energy
3  waste of salivas and head cracking to explain these things which already had been explained before. ><

this is total crap alright.
you can choose to listen to their advise or not to listen,
but at least, pay attention would you?
you might not be agreeing to it NOW,
but it would eventually come in handy later on,
more options to think about, more ways to go around with IF you were to encounter that matter. ><
always be prepared for the worst. ><

its of nature to be dreamy around and being indecisive,
but try to be on track and be focus of what you need most, is really important,
in fact, it could be what that saves from problems that need not be present at ALL.

at some point you might have thought that,
woahlah,  I think I like that guy/girl,
I enjoy to be with him/her, I want to go out more with him/her,
shall we go for lunch? dinner? yamcha session?
being comfortable with her,. happy with her, etc etc
it could change overtime,
this minute you're feeeling good with this one, and with another person another time.
it could be temporary, it could also be long term.

say, you like this person now,
and 3 years down the road, when you meet her, and you still like her,
long term? all the time all the wile that 3 years down the road,  you thought of her, you like her,
temporary? I like her, she's still that same girl I know. can go on if we have chance.
which category are you in? first? second?

make up your mind,
being with different persons at time,
missing them at times,
might not be said that its YOU STILL LIKE THEM / LOVE THEM,
its just you wanting to have them being there for you to fill up your emptiness,
open up more options?
excuse me! open up your options also you definitely have some you really want in mind,
say want want want,
but then not making any effort to it,
its NOT saying OPENING UP MORE OPTIONS PLEASE!

emoing around telling things that you're not happy this time that time cause he/she is going out with another guy/girl, or being close with another person,
is not the RIGHT thing alright,
you dont want to make that effort of yours,
and now you're complaining and whining around,
doesnt make things better,
doesnt keep them away from another company,
doesnt make her come to you!

SO please get up and move your arse there! ><
ask him/her and stop assuming~! please!